Extracurriculars: your other classroom
How to manage a full course load and different clubs, and still have a great social life...in three easy steps!
By Emily Gold
"Excuse me, do you like to sing?"
"Are you interested in politics?"
"Just put your name and number down on this list right here..."
I'll never forget my first experience at Yale's Freshman Bazaar. It was eleven
o' clock on the Sunday morning of my first week at school, and Old Campus had
already been invaded by hundreds of extracurricular groups. Newspapers, singing
groups, volunteer programs, fraternities and sororitieseach organization had
its own table, staffed by two or three seemingly tireless spokespeople singing
their group's praises to everyone who walked by.
Coming from a tiny suburban high school with about five clubs, I was excited
and a little amazed by the dizzying array of choicesand by the fact that so
many students were willing to get up early on a Sunday morning simply in the
hopes of attracting a few new members. I put my name down for activity after
activity, not wanting to prematurely reject any options or offend the people
who had just spent time encouraging me to join.
While the Bazaar is what initially caught my attention as a freshman,
what strikes me now after three years at Yale is that the Bazaar isn't just an
aberration or a one-time deal in the midst of the frenzy of Camp Yale. It's a
genuine illustration of the passion that Yalies have for activitiesa feeling
that lasts the whole year, even in the midst of classes, friends, dorm life,
and exams. Extracurricular groups at Yale offer students the chance to become
involved in something substantial and meaningful, whether it's a tutoring
program, a newspaper, or a play.
Yalies generally support each other's effortsthe audiences for Yale
productions are frequently sold out, and you'll often find students reading
Yale newspapers and magazines over breakfastso there's a definite sense that
the effort is worth it.
Meanwhile, the old cliché "if you can't find the club you want,
just start it yourself" really does hold true at Yale. During each of my three
years here, I've watched new groups form and quickly rise in popularity. A
Different Drum (a new dance group), the Conservative Party (the Political
Union's newest member), the Yale Humanist Society, the Yale Review of
Books, and several new college literary magazines have all been started in
the past few years.
As a result of the intensity of Yale's extracurricular scene, the time
commitment can often be considerable. Rehearsals for plays and dance
performances tend to go well into the night during the weeks before show time,
and newspaper editors devote many hours each week to proofreading and
production. Don't let this daunt you, however. Extracurricular involvement at
Yale is far from being an all-or-nothing dealwhile leadership positions in
groups can be demanding, it's usually possible to be an involved member without
signing your life away.
What's more, the term "signing your life away" is probably misleading
anyway, since the Yalies who make a huge commitment to an activity don't
usually view it as a sacrifice. One of the best aspects of activities is that
they offer a chance to make friends with people whom you otherwise might never
meet. The bonding develops by virtue of spending so much time together while
working on a common goal or project.
Groups often have parties and go on retreats together; some groups,
particularly singing groups and improvisational comedy groups, often go on tour
together during vacations. The Baker's Dozen, a male a cappella singing
group, even has its own house on Lake Place, where many of its members live.
This helps to explain why Yalies remain committed to their extracurricular
groups even after graduation; alumni often donate money to activities they had
participated in as students, and it's not unusual to see a contingent of
elderly alums at singing group jams or athletic events. Yale is a fairly big
place, and one way to feel connected is to find a niche in a smaller group.
There's no denying, however, that balancing extracurriculars, a social
life, and classes can be a difficult juggling act at times. Yale is an intense
place, and it's hard to not feel like you're being pulled in a million
different directions at least once in a while. But one nice aspect of college
is that you're much freer to make your own decisionsin a 150-person lecture
class, no one is going to know if you fall behind in the reading once in a
while. The difference between the obligations you can put off and those that
demand immediate attention becomes pretty clear, and you can prioritize
accordingly from day to day.
So enjoy the Freshman Bazaar. Sign up for anything which catches your
interest (at worst, you'll get a few extra phone calls during the first weeks
of school), and then spend the next month or two trying them all out. One of
the best features of Yale is that most activities are completely non-exclusive.
Unlike Harvard's notorious "comps," in which newcomers face competition and
scrutiny in order to join activities like the newspaper or the radio station,
Yale groups are most often open to anyone who expresses interest. Over time,
you'll settle into a couple of activities you really love, and next year at the
Freshman Bazaar, you may very well find yourself behind a table at eleven in
the morning, urging freshmen to put their names down on a list.
Graphic by Matthew Wiegle.
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